‘Responsible
breeding or rabbit breeding’
Classic
church doctrine since the time of Saint Augustine and before has condemned
contraceptive practices as sinful. Is
contraception really a sin, and if not, what types of birth control are
acceptable for the Christian? This
debate has taken on even greater significance with the recent controversy
surrounding the Roman Catholic denunciation of contraceptives in
poverty-stricken Africa and Philippine, which some fear contributes to
overpopulation, sexually transmitted disease, and perennially poor families.
By
far the most common Biblical story used to support the anti-contraceptive
mantra is the account of Onan in the book of Genesis. According to the account: Then Judah said to
Onan, “Lie with your brother’s wife and fulfil your duty to her as a
brother-in-law to produce offspring for your dead brother.” But Onan knew that
the offspring would not be his; so whenever he lay with his brother’s wife, he
spilled his semen on the ground to keep from producing an offspring for his
brother. What he did was wicked in the
LORD’s sight; so he put him to death also.” [Genesis 38:1-10].
Does
this verse really demonstrate that contraceptives are wrong and sinful? It seems to me Onan’s sin was deliberately
refusing to birth a son for his dead brother and his brother’s wife. It is important to realize the cultural
context in which this story took place.
This story may seem strange to us in modern society, we would be shocked
at the idea that we should have sex with our brother’s wife if she was without
a child. But in ancient times,
maintaining a family line was essential for survival; children took care of
their parents in old age. It is quite
clear to me that Onan’s sin was refusing to birth a son for his deceased
brother. It remains possible that
contraceptive practices are sinful, but the story of Onan certainly doesn’t
prove it.
The
act that Jewish law required Onan to perform would nowadays be regarded as
rape, since the widow's consent was not required and this makes the story a
very flimsy foundation for moral argument on birth control.
Some
will argue that the command to ‘be fruitful and multiply’ found in Genesis 1:28
argues against the use of contraceptives.
However, at best I believe these scriptures demonstrate that we have an
obligation to have children; it does not prove that we should have as many kids
as possible or that we should never use contraceptives. This verse proves nothing regarding the use
of contraceptives to me. I remain skeptical
that the Bible clearly states contraceptive are wrong and I definitely am skeptical
that using contraceptives are a sin.
Some
people say that contraceptive use means a couple does not believe children are
blessing from God. Not so! Some parents decide to use birth control to
stop from having more kids for the time being due to a financial situation or
some other factors. I believe the parents
that make decisions like this are being responsible and wanting to protect the
children they have. Wanting to protect
the children they have tells me they are inclined to believe their children are
a blessing.
One
of the most common arguments against birth control is that the Church has
almost unanimously condemned it throughout history. However, this point is only valid for
Catholics who believe that church tradition is authoritative. Without such a prior commitment to church
tradition, the opposition to contraceptives is not valid.
There
are claims that birth control is bad for society. They will say, it increases abortion
frequency, encourages premarital sex, leads to the spread of STDs, etc. I believe the effect of using contraceptives
would do just the opposite. I believe
birth control is acceptable if it does not involve abortion. The fact that contraceptives
have been misused does not prove that contraceptives are wrong.
Many
claim that we should not use birth control because we should let God decide
when and how many children we should have.
Sounds good for a Christians to say, but look around you and you and you
will see that does not work. Maybe God
is looking down from Heaven and saying I gave them a brain and instead of using
it they breed like rabbits, let them suffer the consequences. Some actually believe God will provide for
their financial and emotional needs even when they do not act responsibly. Responsible people do not wait around at home believing that God will
provide them with the amount of food they need- they go to work, get a pay
check, and buy enough food to survive. God
gives us the ability to make responsible choices for ourselves.
I
fine no evidence in the Bible that gives direct support for birth control. I find no support in the Bible that states
sexual pleasure and reproduction should be separated. I believe God intended sex to be
enjoyed. I do find that the Bible supports some acts of
sex as being wrong.
The
Bible never explicitly approves of contraception. However, there are a number of passages
where the Bible appears to accept that sex should be enjoyed for other
reasons than the production of children, and some people argue that this
implies that no wrong is done if a married couple has sex with the intention of
not having children.
“The
husband should fulfil his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to
her husband. The wife’s body does not
belong to her alone, but also to her husband.
In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone, but
also to his wife. Do not deprive each
other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote
yourselves to prayer,” [1 Corinthians 7:3-5].
This
verse clearly demonstrates that the purpose of marriage is not only for
procreation. Paul tells us that we
should not withhold sex from our spouses.
It is not merely ok to have sex within marriage for pleasure, it is
actually mandatory.
The
Song of Solomon argues against the idea that procreation is the only purpose of
sex. I don’t think one could read the
book and conclude that God only gave us the gift of sex so that we can produce
children.
There
is another major problem with claiming that it is sinful to separate
procreation from marital sex- what about couples who are infertile, either by
old age or physical limitations? Is it
wrong for people who are infertile to have sex?
Is it wrong for old people to have sex?
Almost everyone would admit that there is nothing morally wrong with
infertile sex; in fact, most would think it morally repulsive to claim
that such people should never have sex.
This would also conflict with Paul’s teaching about fulfilling marital
duties.
Sometimes
there are very good moral reasons for using birth control. A couple may want to limit the number of
children they have because they can’t support more, either for financial
reasons or because they want to be able to spend enough individual time with
each child they already have . Doing otherwise could harm the family. For those couples who can’t support more
children, contraceptive use may be morally justified and even morally good.
I
believe that abortion takes the life of an innocent human being, any birth
control methods which involves abortion of any kind is immoral. Yet, there are several responsible forms of
birth control that can be reasonably used. Couples should feel free to decide
for themselves whether, and when, use of contraceptives is appropriate and
desirable.
Christian
ideas about contraception come from church teachings rather than scripture, the
Bible has little to say about the subject.
Their teachings on birth control are often based on different Christian
interpretations, traditions and culture regarding the meaning of marriage, sex
and the family.
Christian
acceptance of contraception is relatively new; all churches disapproved of
artificial contraception until the start of the 20th century. I think it is wrong for us Catholics
to say the denominations that adopted and approved contraception or definitely
wrong – maybe they found the error in the teaching and allowed the Holy Spirit
to enlighten them.
The
Roman Catholic Church allows only ‘natural birth control’, which means only
having sex during the infertile period of a woman's monthly cycle. Artificial
methods of contraception are banned.
When Catholics practice natural birth control are their goals not the
same as those who practice artificial birth control? They all wish to control the birth of a
child.
Many
Catholics have decided to disobey church teaching on birth control creating a
breach between laity and the Church establishment. I cannot help but thing birth control often
leads to stronger families and better marriages, churches should let believers
decide birth control on their own.
Married couples know best what they can and cannot afford and it is a
known fact finances is the biggest cause of divorce.
The
Catholic Church teaches that using artificial contraception is wrong because:
•it
is against 'natural law'
•it
breaks the natural connection between the procreative and the purposes of sex
•it
turns sex into a non-marital act
•it
gives human beings the power to decide when a new life should begin and that
power belongs only to God
•it
leads to widespread immorality
•it
damages the institution of marriage
•it
reduces male respect for women
•it
gives human beings the idea that they can have complete power over the body
•it
allows the implementation of eugenic programs
The
Catholic Church also says the Church does not condemn things like the pill or
condoms in themselves. What is morally
wrong is using such things with the intention of preventing conception. Using them for other purposes is fine - for
example, using the pill to regulate the periods of a woman who is not in a
sexual relationship is not wrong. It is
not the product used that is wrong it is the purpose for the product being used. Makes sense I guess.
I
believe the real problem for the Catholic Church is the leaders cannot accept
that the physical expression of love between husband and wife in sexual
intercourse can be separated from the reproductive act. The Catholic Church says nothing evil can be
done even if in the end good comes from it – I would agree with that. I just do not see the evil in using
artificial contraception if it is in no way connected to abortion.
I
Timothy 5:8 tells us that parents must provide for their children. This includes properly caring for and
supporting their children until they reach maturity. Couples should not have children unless and
until they are able to do this. If they
are unable to properly care for them, they should consider some form of
controlling pregnancies. I do not
think God prefers homeless hungry children over artificial birth control.
The
issue of birth control is now becoming an issue in Islam. One Muslim doctor that I know of is working
to dispel the myths that fuel the resistance to family planning. For over ten years he has been presenting
evidence to persuade clerics that Islam supports family planning methods,
contrary to the views of many clerics.
Some
of the clerics, especially in northern Nigeria use the same arguments that the
Catholic leadership uses to denounce artificial birth control.
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